Take this from a guy that has also been 280+ his whole life. Yes. I would say it this way: We tend to place blame on a lot of our problems on our obesity. I’m working on it now so I don’t have to when I lose all the weight.
... 8 Amazing Weight-Loss Transformations. Look at r/progresspics at people who are about 290 -- and see how they've changed. It does not need to display weight loss.
I've become a rampant control freak. Press J to jump to the feed. The difference is stark.
The sub was difficult to look at honestly, seeing what people my height and weight look like but imagining me in their mould, but also very helpful. Well I have to take everything you write with a pinch of salt due to your username, but what you said is a common theme; that it helps but isn't as impactful as we imagine it will be. I am definitely more attractive now but (to my surprise) it doesn't really make me much happier or has altered the quality of my life in any real way.
EVERYTHING is easier to do. How to get started losing weight: https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide, ♂54 5'11/179㎝ SW:298℔/135㎏ CW:183℔/83㎏ [3Y AMA], [1Y recap] MFP+WalksHikes+TOPS. Review the subreddit rules here before posting. Some of it was from confidence and respect. I'm currently 360-ish to 370-ish, and my target weight is 220, like my nutritionist says I should be. Start working on your self esteem now so that you have the confidence later. Brushing aside my lack of practical experience, I guess deep down I am terrified of love. Help & Resources.
Though I do feel as if some benefit more from losing weight more than others (there are only winners waiting at the finish line of course), and that I could one day be one of them.
I think I look better but nobody notices in real life, only the internet, haha. You DO NOT have to have everything going your way to start losing weight.
“I found a few subreddits on reddit that help people lose weight. Accept feedback as genuine. Your comment regarding people, in general, treating you nicer doesn't surprise me (it's what I hear from people, and I will probably experience the same when I get there)......but the fact you said you've noticed women who knew you while fat now showing sexual attraction towards you blows my mind.....I always thought it was over when it comes to girls who know you pre-weight loss, but whoaa.....That must feel incredible, yet heartbreaking at the same time.
This Guy Beat Addiction and Lost 210 Pounds.
The truth is that with all my "dating" life now (if you can even describe Tinder, POF, etc. I've said it before I think, and I'm not trying to be creepy, but the answer to OP's question is yes. Progress can come in many …
Thank you! Having gynecomastia while carrying chub in so much quantity is definitely a big blow to esteem, I'm hoping weight loss will make me very different.
I am going through a phase now that most people probably got out of their system by their early to mid teens.
This is what I meant by that other post not being exactly helpful. This is the reddit to post those awesome before/after pictures of yours! I like who I am as a person, but I am not afraid to say that I know absolutely nothing about dating and confidence. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, 15lbs lost 26F 5'2 SW:180 CW: 164 GW: 110, F29 | 5'1" | SW: 220 CW: 120-125 GW1: 130 GW2: 115 Preggo: 128, 48M 5'10" | Start waist:40" | Current: 30.25" | Goal: 29, 60lbs lost F24 5'11/SW:107kg/CW: 79.1kg/GW: 68kg/ SinceJan2017, https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide.
I’m getting people I’ve been friends with for a few years suddenly interested in me.
This is a common pitfall that you need to be aware of.
I see a lot of posts saying how you really should sort out the mental blocks that being overweight has before or while you lose weight, since losing weight isn't the solutions to all your problems.
And a surprising majority of dudes are not freaked out by it.
Also, bodies tend to be far more attractive if well within the healthy weight range. From working out to doing chores. TRUST that it is likely happening to you. Like yourself, I had zero activity from females until recently, but now I have so much it is overwhelming.
The only thing it's impacted is how often I get hit on by men but this does not change, in general, my ability to actually form meaningful relationships with them. Your progress picture is proof you're a pretty good looking dude now. I think there's a myth sold to people through the media that being beautiful will solve your problems but the reality is that your physical appearance is a tiny blip in the things that genuinely make you feel happy and satisfied in your life. You will have a similar experience, but you are not an objective observer of your own self like you are when you see pictures of other people. In my head I think I can only really hook up with a former fat girl since they "get it".
Confidence makes you significantly more attractive... but a slimmer body doesn’t hurt either... and will hopefully help your confidence as well... I’ve been married for 10 years but even have more confidence with things pertaining to the wife.
A place for people of all sizes to discuss healthy and sustainable methods of weight loss.
I went from 386 to 211 (gained some back since then) but at 211 I was noticing obvious signs of attraction from some women who even knew me when I was super fat. The weird thing is that I’m finding it really uncomfortable.
Also. In the back of my mind I think It could distract me from my program and fuck everything up.
When it's gone, we find we still have those problems. Seriously though the difference is stark to the extent I actually don't believe you, I'm certain that everybody notices.
Night and day difference. I'm 24, 290lbs and never had a girlfriend, I was wondering how much influence losing weight will have in this department. Take compliments at face value. Though I do feel as if some benefit more from losing weight more than others (there are only winners waiting at the finish line of course), and that I could one day be one of them.
If you want to focus on your weight and you believe that will help you in other areas in your life where you may be lacking, then I think you should trust your instincts. A place for people of all sizes to discuss healthy and sustainable methods of weight loss. Look at r/progresspics and you’ll see how much more attractive people get when they lose weight. I can see that I look so much better too. Hard to tell for myself, but I see the 'before and after' face photos for weight loss and the people look way, way better looking after weight loss. People respect you for being competent, driven, diligent and that's what you exemplify when you lose a lot of weight. Yep. Losing weight WILL make your BODY more attractive, but will not make YOU more attractive.
I feel as though no girl would ever be able to understand my rather irrational idiosyncrasies which has gotten me to this point. And YES.
I went from 386 to 211 (gained some back since then) but at 211 I was noticing obvious signs of attraction from some women who even knew me when I was super fat. Everyone has different problems and different solutions for those problems. Not really any nice way to word this, but excess body fat simply isn’t sexy.
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